Travel Kindly The reference for travel etiquette · Est. 2006
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May I ask the person in front of me not to recline?

“I am 6 foot 4. On a two-hour flight, is it fair to ask?” · Marcus, Denver

You may ask, but you may not expect a yes. The seat reclines because the airline built it that way, and the person in front of you paid for that seat too. Ask before takeoff, and give a reason with the request: "I'd be grateful; I have a laptop out for the next hour." If the answer is no, that is the end of it. Thankfully, many people find it a pleasure to help another traveler.

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The Travel Kindly Code
Make room. Space, time, and quiet are shared. Take your share and leave the rest.
Assume everyone has had a long day. The crew, the gate agent, and the person in seat 22B.
Ask before you act. A question takes three seconds and prevents most of what ends up on the news.
Keep your promises to strangers. Board with your group, sit in your seat, and stay on your side of the armrest.
Be the one who says thank you. Out loud, and by name if you can read the name tag.